A few thoughts for todays post:
First: Have you ever thought about how a door separates two places. Sometimes do we as humans act as a door, separating two things. Those things being plenty. For example, we separate our minds from our public mouths at times or our true selves from our daily pointless interactions. Or honesty from our lives. The difference between us and a door is a door knob. One twist of a door knob two worlds can become one. Not many of us can bring our separate worlds together. Maybe we should spend more time looking for door knobs because we are currently just wandering pieces of wood claiming to be doors. And yet we are so closed off to everything.
Second: "...There is no such thing as a perfect love." How many people do you think search for a perfect love? And I don't mean looking under the bed type of search but a true search. The kind that our lives would remain out of orbit unless we could find what we are looking for. I think everyone is searching for it and the sad part is that no one will find it. We will never be able to give up our imperfections and fears in order to have a perfect love. The key is to give up that dream and start loving imperfectly because when we admit imperfections we allow room in our hearts for someone to come in and take away our imperfections and fight our fears to the extent that we feel loved and we feel safe. And really isn't tat the love we want? Isn't that what we should search for?
Third: "Sometimes not feeling is the only way to survive." If we think about each time we have fallen apart. Each time we have honestly felt like there was no more life inside of us. How did it start? Why are we in our own prison? I believe it's because we felt something at all. We loved too hard, or cared too much and at the end of the day it leaves us motionless. Desperately waiting for more. So indeed sometimes not feeling is the only way to survive. But let me ask you, is being numb better than loving without boundaries? Or should we take risks?
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